Thursday, 16 July 2009

Food for thought...


  1. Crap! I just tried posting a comment but I think there was a glitch and I'm not sure if it got through properly, so I'll try again...

    This is probably a bit of a personal question, so feel free to ignore/delete as you please. I was just wondering: do you prefer to be D, or S? From what I've read here, I'm not completely sure (although I guess you lean more toward the D side of the spectrum?) I find that really intriguing, as most people I know who are into D/s are very clear cut one way or the other.

    Personally, I have to say that the thought of an S guy is a big turn-off for me (don't know why!), but if that's your bag, I hope you find a delicious-looking S boy for yourself very soon...

  2. @Teacup: I rather enjoy personal questions. Actually this is prompting yet another blog.
    In short, for as far back as I can remember (and yes, this stretches back to childhood), I have had submissive fantasies. I grew up, ended up in a couple of relationships with primarily submissive guys, and so tried the whole domination thing. I enjoyed it, but it didn't feel like me.
    And then, last year something happened to change all of that. I suddenly started to abuse Alistair at a party, unprompted... and it was *amazing*. It was like a switch had been flicked. And now I am a switch.
    People always think that I am D... usually it's the height, but it applies even in cyber-land.
    Oh, and most submissive guys don't do it for me. There's this whole "I am not worthy of femdom" patheticness that goes on. I don't play with boys like that. I like 'em cocky, pretty, and dignified.


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